一个女孩给我发来电子邮件,说她是一个从来没输过的人,但是这一次,她输得很惨。在他们班的班长竞选上,她输给了一个自以为不是对手的同学,让她感觉自己丢尽了脸。现在,她无法原谅自己,随时都感觉同学们在嘲笑她,她变得听不进课,处不好朋友,甚至想转学了。最后,她很焦急地跟我说 A girl sent me an e-mail saying that she was a person who had never lost, but this time, she lost badly. In the election of the squad leader in their class, she lost to a classmate who thought she wasn’t an adversary. She felt that she had lost her face. Now, she can’t forgive herself. She feels that her classmates are laughing at her at any time. She becomes unable to attend classes, is not a good friend, and even wants to transfer. Finally, she told me anxiously