此前,我和中国学生的多次交流都是围绕如何达到优秀和卓越,如何成为领导人才而展开的。最近,在新浪网的聊天室和我收到的许多电子邮件中,我发现更多的中国学生需要知道的不是如何从优秀到卓越,而是如何从迷茫到积极、从失败到成功、从自卑到自信、从惆怅到快乐、从恐惧到乐观。 Earlier, my frequent exchanges with Chinese students focused on how to achieve excellence and excellence and how to be a leader. Recently, in Sina’s chat room and in many e-mails I received, I found that more Chinese students need to know not how to get from excellence to excellence, but from confusion to being active, from failure to success, from self-esteem To self-confidence, from melancholy to happiness, from fear to optimism.