有的家长很苦恼,说孩子小时候很听话,长大了却没办法管教了,仿佛角色调换了位置,父亲变成了孩子,孩子变成了父亲。 这和家长的教育方法有关,大人总习惯用成人的思维定势和行为模式去规范孩子,这种规范往往带有强制性。孩子小的时候,很依赖 Some parents are upset that children are obedient childhood, grew up but no way to discipline, as if the role of the swap position, the father became a child, the child became a father. This is related to the parental education methods, adults always accustomed to adult thinking and behavior patterns to regulate children, this norms are often mandatory. When children are young, very dependent