孔子是我国春秋时期伟大的思想家、教育家,《子路、曾皙、冉有、公西化侍坐》这篇文章,记叙了他与弟子之间关于“志”的一次谈话,从中我们可以看出,他善于启发,尤其是十分讲究谈话技巧,使学生敞开心扉,畅所欲言,收到了较好的谈话效果,从而显示了一个长者平易、慈详、睿智的风范。 Confucius is a great thinker and educator of the Spring and Autumn Period in our country. The article “Zi Lu, Zeng Qi, You You, Gong Xi Hua Shi Zuo” describes the conversation between him and his disciples about Zhi. From this we can see that He was very good at inspiring, and he was very particular about conversational skills. He opened up the hearts of his students, spoke freely, received good results, and showed the elegance, wisdom, and wisdom of an elderly person.