在中学时代,我们时常会为一次失败而过分伤心,为一次成功而过分高兴。 其实不管是失败也好,成功也好,它们都是生活给你的一次考验。面对失败你是振作起来,重新再来,还是灰心丧气,一蹶不振,从此就这样消沉下去呢?前者可以让你摆脱挫折的阴影,走向成功的未来;后者将使你落伍败退。我举一个例子。从前在 In the middle school era, we were often too sad for a failure and overjoyed for a success. In fact, whether it is failure or success, they are all a test of life. In the face of failure, you are cheering up. When you come back again, you are frustrated and you lose your strength. From then on, you will be depressed. The former can free you from the shadow of frustration and lead to a successful future; the latter will make you fall behind. Let me give you an example. Once upon a time