论文部分内容阅读
22岁的小林是由父亲陪着来心理咨询室的,父亲含泪说:“我这儿子这么大了,在家什么事也不干,整天就是睡懒觉、玩电子游戏,也不找工作,没有上进心、没有责任心,这样下去该怎么办啊?求医生救救这孩子吧!”等他父亲走后,小林打开了尘封的记忆之门:我也有过美好的童年,9岁以前我一直过着无忧无虑的日子,学习成绩在班上总是前两名,被老师宠爱,受同学喜欢。小学三年级发生的一次意外,使我的生活从此掉入了无底深渊。记得那一天,我忘了带数学书,中途跑回家取书。当我猛推开房门,天啊,我妈正在洗澡,我看到了全裸的她(当时条件差,我们家的人都在房里洗)!恰好父亲从旁走过,他不分青红皂白,抓着我就一顿暴打,什么难听的话都说出来了:“你这小流氓,不学好,看我不打死你!”处在当时的情景下,我哪有解释的机会,我不知自己究竟做错了什么,可是,从此我背上了“黑锅”。爸爸对我不理不睬,我自然就加倍地报复他们,背着书包出门,但不去上课,到外面游玩。父母说什么,我偏偏就不干什么,与他们对着干,成绩当然是一塌糊涂。即使父亲后来对我认了错,我仍然无动于衷,我这一辈子被父母毁了,我能原谅他们吗?
22-year-old Kobayashi accompanied by his father to the counseling room, his father said in tears: “My son is so big, what is not doing at home, all day long sleep, playing video games, do not find a job, no Motivated, no sense of responsibility, so what should I do? Seek a doctor to help save this child! ”After his father left, Kobayashi opened the dusty memory door: I also had a beautiful childhood, and I have been 9 years old A carefree day, academic performance in the class is always the top two, loved by the teacher, loved by classmates. An accident in the third grade of elementary school made my life fall into the bottomless abyss. I remember that day, I forgot to bring a math book, run home to pick up books. When I fiercely pushed open the door, my God, my mom was taking a bath, and I saw her naked (poor condition at that time, all the people in my house were washing in the room!) It was just that his father had walked past him indiscriminately, Grabbed me a beat, what is unpleasant to say: “You little rogue, do not learn well, I do not kill you!” In the circumstances at that time, I have the opportunity to explain, I do not know myself What to do wrong, but, from then on my back “black pot.” Dad ignored me, I will naturally double their revenge, carrying a bag to go out, but not to go to school to play outside. Parents say what I happen to do nothing, and they are doing, of course, is a mess. Even if my father later recognized me wrong, I am still indifferent, my life destroyed by their parents, I can forgive them?