面对孩子的成长,爸爸妈妈时常会形成两大阵营,甚至爆发激烈冲突。其实,差异本身并不是坏事,如何看到差异的价值?如何利用差异更好地支持孩子的成长和家庭的共同进步?实录1“严妈”与“慈父”的较量分享人:王阳,43岁2个孩子的妈妈和很多女孩一样,结婚时我欢天喜地,感恩自己终于找到了一个有如此多共同点的人嫁了,我和先生的许多爱好、想法简直一模一样。然而走进婚姻后,我很快就发现,我们的差异逐日显现,尤其在养育孩子的过程中层出不穷。 Faced with the growth of children, mom and dad often form two camps, and even violent clashes occur. In fact, the difference itself is not a bad thing, how to see the value of the difference? How to use the difference to better support the child’s growth and family’s common progress? Record 1 “Yan Ma” and “” “Father” contestant : Wang Yang, a 43-year-old with 2 children, likes many girls. I was so happy when I got married. Thanksgiving I finally found a man who has so many things in common. My husband and I have many hobbies. The idea is exactly the same. However, as soon as I got married, I quickly discovered that our differences have emerged day by day, especially in the process of raising children.