生活中遇到一些事我们常常百般萦绕,思之忧之,辗转难眠;事情过去,又百般不舍,患得患失,寝食难安。这种生活的状态,其实是一种很痛苦的生命状态。《菜根谭》说:“风来疏竹,风过而竹不留声;雁渡寒潭,雁去而潭不留影。故君子事来而心始现,事去而心随空。”“事去心空”的确是一种人生修炼。事去心空是一种豁达的生活态度。时间会冲淡一切。当初那种锥心泣血的悲伤、死去活来的痛苦都会随着岁月的流逝而变得淡如浮云,乃至消失在记忆里。 Some things we encounter in life We often linger in every possible way, thoughts of worry, removed sleepless nights; things in the past, and every possible solution, suffering from loss, sleepless nights. This state of life is actually a very painful state of life. “Cai Gen Tan,” said: “The wind to sparse bamboo, wind and bamboo leaves no sound; Yan Ducks, goose and the lake is not a shadow. ”“ ”To heart empty" is indeed a life practice. Going to heart is an open-minded attitude to life. Time will dilute everything. The kind of heart-wrenching grief, the pain of death will be as time goes by and pale, or even disappear in the memory.