我的一个学生为他10岁的儿子过生日,邀我赴宴。席间,亲朋好友频频举杯,祝愿小主人生日快乐。轮到我说贺词了,我问小主人:“你记得你父母的生日吗?”小主人摇了摇头。于是,我讲了个故事:宋朝有个叫刘宏济的人,每年他自己过生日时,总要香汤沐浴,正襟危坐,默默地祝福母亲、父亲过得幸福快乐。他认为人出生那天,最担忧、焦虑的是父亲,最 One of my students had a birthday for his 10-year-old son and invited me to dinner. During the banquet, relatives and friends frequently toast, I wish the happy birthday of the little master. It was my turn to say my congratulation, and I asked the little master: “Do you remember your parents’ birthday?” "The master shook his head. So, I told a story: the Song Dynasty there is a man named Liu Hongji, his own birthday each year, always fragrant soup bathed, sat, quietly bless his mother, his father had a happy and happy. He believes that people were born, the most worrying, anxious father, most