有些伤害,离得越近,伤得越深。在孩子的眼中,父母就是他们那片小天地的中心。有时,来自父母“无意识”的伤害,看上去皮肉完好,伤的却是筋骨心脉,很多年之后仍然隐隐作痛。电视剧《金婚》里面,佟南方因为儿时父母把她送离身边,佟多多因为父母无意间的忽略,姐妹俩长大成人之后都带着沉重的心结。历经多少次哭泣、争执、伤害别人或者伤害自己,才终于平复了那道伤痕。但这中间,究竟失落了多少美好和年华,最终还是冷暖自知。生命的轨道永远是朝着前方,有的时候,为了更好地向前,我们必须停下来,把后面那些散落的铁轨一点点地衔接上,才能从过去与父母那令人沮丧的关系模式中解脱出来,发现一个充满自信、力量和情感独立的新世界,得到最终的自由和幸福。 Some injuries, the closer, the deeper the injury. In the eyes of their children, parents are the center of their little world. Occasionally, the damage from a parent’s “unconscious” looks perfectly flesh-and-bones, but the bones are still hurting after many years. TV drama “Golden Marriage” inside, because of childhood Tong Nan parents sent her side, Tong because a lot of parents inadvertently ignored, the sisters grew up with a heavy heart knot. After how many times we cried, argued, hurt others or hurt ourselves, we finally recovered the scars. However, in the middle, how many beautiful and good times are lost, and ultimately still know. The path of life is always toward the front, and sometimes, in order to move forward better, we must stop and connect the scattered tracks behind us a little in order to draw from the frustrating relationship between past and parents Freed and found a new world full of self-confidence, strength and emotional independence, and ultimately the freedom and happiness.