必要的时候应该和老师沟通一下。Q:我女儿今年上三年级,最近有件很烦恼的事。说来话长,跟一个男同学有关。上一年级时,女儿跟同桌男同学很玩得来,经常跟我们说她同桌很有意思,很幽默。孩子跟同学处得不错,我们也很高兴。到二年级,换了同桌,女儿很不高兴。后来,这个男生经常给女儿写纸条。班里开始有传言,说他俩关系不一般。我们就开导她:同 When necessary, you should communicate with the teacher. Q: My daughter was in the third grade this year. Recently there was a very troubling thing. Long story, with a male student. When I was in the previous grade, my daughter played very much with my male classmate at the same table. She often told us that she was very funny at the table and very humorous. Children are good with classmates and we are very happy. To the second grade, for the same table, the daughter is very upset. Later, the boy often wrote notes to his daughter. There have been rumors in the class that they are not in the same relationship. We enlighten her: same