印度诗人泰戈尔在他的《飞鸟集》中,曾写过这样一句诗:“不是锤的打击,乃是水的载歌载舞,使鹅卵石臻于完美”。似水柔情力胜千钧。语言的论辩力和感召力,不在于声严色厉之中,而在于深邃的义理与丰富的感情紧密结合,这就是人们所常说的导之以义,晓之以理,动之以情。而言语的影响力、感召力和鼓动作用来源于讲话者的思想、 The Indian poet Tagore wrote in his book The Flock of Birds: “It is not a hammer blow, but a song and dance of the water, perfect pebbles.” Water tenderness is superb. The argument and charisma of language do not lie in the accent and rigor but in the deep sense of justice combined with rich feelings. This is what people often call the righteousness, the dawn of reasoning and the touching love. The language’s influence, charisma and agitation come from the speaker’s thought,