相互欣赏,爱对方,这样才能创造有质感的生活。婚姻失败有许多原因,对于现在的年轻人来说,一个重要的因素是我们在婚姻中越来越不会爱了。Selina在总结她婚姻失败的原因时说:“感情中很重要的是怎么样在爱别人的同时不失去自我,但是我却是太爱自己了。”没错,现在的鸡汤文告诉我们的,都是诸如“聪明的女人千万不要在婚姻中失去自我”“女人要先爱自己”这样的“励志”桥段,但现实情况是,在这个讲究个性与自由的年代,大家不是不 Enjoy each other, love each other, so as to create a quality life. There are many reasons for the failure of a marriage. For the young people nowadays, one of the important factors is that we are getting less and less in marriage. Selina summed up the reasons for her marital failure: “What is important in feelings is how to love others without losing yourself, but I love myself so much.” Yes, the chicken soup now tells us , Are such as “smart woman do not lose self in marriage ” “woman should love yourself ” so “inspirational ” bridge section, but the reality is that in this pay attention to personality and freedom The age, we are not no