送礼是一门艺术,有其约定俗成的规矩。送给谁、送什么、怎么送都很有奥妙,绝不能瞎送、胡送、滥送。根据古今中外一些成功的送礼经验和失败的教训我们应该注意下述原则: 礼物轻重得当一般讲,礼物太轻,又意义不大, 很容易让人误解为瞧不起他,尤其是对关系不算亲密的人,更是如此,如果礼太轻而想求别人办的事难度较大,成功的可能几乎为零。但是,礼物太贵重,又会使接受礼物的人有受贿之嫌,特别是对上级、同事更应注意。除了某些爱占便宜又胆子特大的人之外,一般人就很可能婉言谢绝, 或即使收下,也会付钱,要不就日后 Gift giving is an art that has its own rules. To whom, what to send, how to send are very mysterious, must not be blind to send, send, abuse. According to some successful experiences of gifts and failures in ancient and modern times, we should pay attention to the following principles: Gifts are generally light weight, the gift is too light, and not meaningful, it is easy to misunderstand him as despise him, especially for the relationship is not intimate Even more so, if the ceremony is too light and want others to do more difficult, the success may be almost zero. However, if the gift is too expensive, it will make the person who accepts the gift suspected of taking bribes. In particular, we should pay more attention to our superiors and colleagues. Except for some people who are cheaper and more courageous, the average person may very well decline politely or pay even if they accept it. Otherwise,