近年来,青少年自伤、自杀呈明显低龄化趋势。人们不禁要问:今天的孩子怎么了?现在的孩子生活条件比以前的好多了,为何还有那么多孩子轻生、厌世?为何有那么多孩子忧郁、不快乐?最主要的因素是父母不愿让孩子经历苦难,总千方百计地为孩子设计充满笑脸和鲜花的“世界”。现实无情,父母的娇宠让孩子心理承受力变得脆弱,一点小挫折或失败就能酿成一桩惨祸。为了不再让这些悲剧发生,我们需狠狠心,让孩子体验挫折,增强抗挫折能力。什么是挫折?挫折就是遭遇困难、失败,是一种困难或失败给心理带来的感受。 In recent years, adolescent self-injury, suicide showed a clear trend of younger age. One can not but ask: What happened to today’s children? The living conditions of children are much better than before. Why are so many children incapacitated and weary? Why are so many children depressed and unhappy? The most important factor is the unwillingness of parents Let the children experience suffering, always try every possible way for children to design a smile and flowers “world ”. The reality is ruthless, the pampering of the parents makes the child psychological endurance vulnerable, and a little setback or failure can lead to a tragedy. In order not to let these tragedies happen again, we need to be hard-working and let the children experience the setbacks and enhance the ability to resist setbacks. What is setback? Setback is the encounter difficulties, failure, is a kind of difficulty or failure to psychological feelings.