在心理学看来,判断一个人是否成功,最主要的是看他是否最大限度地发挥了自己的优势。有这样一个很经典的故事:小兔子被送进了动物学校,它最喜欢跑步课,并且总是得第一;最不喜欢的则是游泳课,一上游泳课它就非常痛苦。但是兔爸爸和兔妈妈要求小兔子什么都学,小兔子只好每天垂头丧气地到学校上学。老师问它是不是在为游泳太差而烦恼,小兔 In psychology, judging whether a person is successful or not, the most important thing is to see whether he has given full play to his strengths. There is a very classic story: the bunny was sent to the school animal, it likes to run the class, and always have the first; the least like swimming lesson, a swimming lesson it is very painful. But the rabbit dad and the rabbit mother asked the bunny to learn anything. The bunny had to go to school desperately everyday. The teacher asked if it is too troublesome for swimming, bunny