在日本的一家女子大学,为女学生们授课多年的一位教授在细致观察了这些女孩子的举止行为后,发现了许多有意思的现象。她总结道:与男人相比,女性更会做一些下意识的小动作,特别是当她内心不安、犹豫不决或不自信的时候,总想用语言和表情掩饰这些心理状态。 下面就简要地告诉你,别人会通过你的小动作看到些什么。 手臂动作 不停地玩手边的东西。没有经验的人会以为这时你的注意力在别处,而不是谈话的对方,但眼光厉害的人一下就能看出来你其实内心十分在意对方,甚至是倾心于对方。因为你十分紧张,便不自在地 At a Japanese women’s university, a professor who taught girls for many years discovered many interesting phenomena after carefully observing the behavior of these girls. She concludes that women are more likely to do unconscious gestures than men, especially when she is upset, hesitant or not confident, always trying to hide the state of mind with words and expressions. Here to briefly tell you, what other people will see through your little tricks. Arm action kept playing hand things. An inexperienced person may think that your attention is nowhere else, not the other side of the conversation, but you can see that you are actually very much concerned with each other and even with each other. Because you are very nervous, uncomfortable