1.正视人生、敢于面对现实,明智处理,不管身处顺境还是逆境。2.办事果断理智,不随波逐流。同时也喜于听取合理意见。必要时,能够当机立断并勇于承担可能带来的一切后果。3.爱自己的配偶、孩子、亲戚、朋友.并从中得到乐趣和力量。不但爱他人,也乐于接受爱。4.生活中令人生气的事是难免的,但能够把握分寸,控制情绪。5.有长远打算,可以为了长远利益而放弃眼前 1. Face life, dare to face the reality, be wise to deal with, whether in good times or adversity. 2 things decisive reason, do not drift. Also happy to listen to reasonable advice. When necessary, be able to act promptly and courageously to assume all the possible consequences. 3. Love your spouse, children, relatives, friends, and have fun and strength. Not only love others, but also willing to accept love. 4. Life is angry things are inevitable, but can grasp the sense of proportion, control emotions. 5. Long-term plan, you can give up for the long-term interests