中国人与外国人在育儿观上存在很多不同之处,先从两个例子讲起。在国内,大多数家长都认为孩子就是一切,所以,不管孩子犯了什么错或者是到底犯了错没有,错的总是都在家长这一方。家长总是想方设法地惩罚自己或是什么替代品,这样会使孩子慢慢地觉得自己总是对的。有一次在公园里, There are many differences between Chinese and foreigners in the concept of parenting, starting with two examples. In China, most parents think that children are everything. So, no matter what the wrongdoing or wrongdoing is, the wrongdoing is always on the side of parents. Parents are always trying to punish themselves or what alternatives, so that children will slowly feel that they are always right. Once in the park,