孩子更不可能没有缺点。孩子有缺点是正常的事情,所以他们才需要教育,才需要成长,而我们是成人,我们要从自身做起,给孩子做学习榜样。那是十几年前,我还在学校任教时的一次家长会。中途,一位家长带着孩子向我咨询和讨论教育孩子的方法。一般来说,家长在众人面前所提的问题都会比较照顾孩子的自尊,可这位父亲就当着孩子和众人的面,说自己孩子是多么的差,一直数落孩子,竟然把孩子说得一无是处。 Children are more likely to be without flaws. Children have shortcomings is normal, so they need education, they need to grow, and we are adults, we must start from ourselves, to do their children to learn from example. That was a parent meeting I had taught at school more than a decade ago. Midway, a parent with children to consult me ​​and discuss ways to educate children. In general, parents will take care of their children’s self-esteem in front of the public questions, but the father in front of children and all the people, that their children are so poor, always countless children, even put the child to say nothing .