我不是一个活得不潇洒的人,但也偶有不快不公的感受如乌云般袭来,这时就难免陷入苦闷和激愤之中。于是我设法驱散那些乌云,尽管这需要一个或长或短的过程。一曰思:想一想值不值得愁怨,该不该忧愤?结论往往是:不!那些人,那些话,那些事,又何必放在心上折腾?特别是站在别人立场上一想,更能大彻大悟。二曰诉:向亲人挚友毫无保留地畅谈,把心中沉甸甸的东西一点点卸下来。那 I am not a man who lives unruly, but also occasionally unpleasant feeling like a cloud-like hit, then inevitably into depression and indignation. So I managed to disperse those dark clouds, although this required a long or short process. One day, thinking: think worthless melancholy, should not be indignant? The conclusion is often: No! Those people, those words, those things, why do you mind toss? Especially stand on the position of others think, More thorough understanding. Second said: Tell your loved ones to talk unreservedly, the hearts of heavy things a little bit unloaded. that