也许是出于职业习惯，我一到加拿大和美国，就很想接触主流社会的一些家庭。我想看看他们的家居生活，了解他们的婚姻关系、家庭生活、情趣与爱好。总之，我对他们就像他们对我们一样，一切都感兴趣。可是要接触主流社会的家庭，对像我儿子那样的留学有年的学子也许不是什么难? Perhaps out of professional habits, when I came to Canada and the United States, I really wanted to reach out to some families in mainstream society. I want to see their home life, to understand their marriage, family life, taste and hobbies. In short, I’m just as interested in them as they are for us. But to reach out to mainstream families, it may not be hard for students like me to study abroad for years.