人要因必要而活,而不要因欲望而活。我们必须明白欲望与必要的差别:欲望是基本需求之外的渴望,必要则是生活的基本条件。当只需要一个时,拥有一个就好;如果拥有了两个,有可能一个都保不住。我曾经有个非常怪异的习惯——只用钢笔写字,就算用钢笔也必须使用笔尖非常细的才行,似乎只有那样的笔才能充分表达出我澄澈的感情。 Men want to live because of necessity, but not to live by desire. We must understand the difference between desire and necessity: desire is the desire beyond basic needs, and necessity is the basic condition of life. When only one is needed, having one is fine; if two are available, one can not help. I used to have a very weird habit of writing only with a pen. Even a pen must use very fine nibs. It seems that only such a pen can fully express my true feelings.