刚刚逝世的文学大师巴金,生前在回忆自己的成长生涯时,不只一次地说过:“我有三个先生,即母亲陈淑芬、轿夫老周、编辑吴先忧。母亲教给我‘爱’,轿夫老周教给我‘忠实’,朋友吴先忧教给我‘自我牺牲’。这些在我的生活里留下了不可磨灭的影响。”巴金的第一个先生是母亲陈淑芬。她生长于书香门第,为人宽厚、谨慎,闲暇时喜欢读书吟诗。巴金曾经深情地说:“她教我爱一切的人,不管他们或贫或富;她教我帮助那些在困苦中需要扶持的人:她教我同情那些境遇不好的婢仆。”无论有多少难言的委屈和辛酸,巴金看见的母 Ba Jin, the just-forgotten literary master, said more than once during his lifetime in his memory of his growing up: “I have three sisters, mother Chen Shufen, beetle Lao Zhou and editor Wu Xianhou. , The beloved old week taught me ’Faithfulness’ and my friend Wu Xiangyou taught me ’self-sacrifice’ which left an indelible impact on my life. ”“ The first Mr. Ba Jin was his mother, Chen Shu-fen. She grew up in the scholarly family, generous, cautious, leisure time like reading poems. Pugin once said emphatically: ”She taught me to love all, whether they are poor or rich, and she taught me to help those in need of support in hardship: she taught me to sympathize with those in bad condition." No matter how many unspeakable wronged and bitter, Ba Jin saw the mother