父亲3 1岁才结婚,他整整大我母亲9岁。父亲算是个孤儿。祖母生下他不久就染病走了,祖父一手爹一手娘,把父亲拉扯到9岁时,自己却在工地上出了事,也撒手走了。这样,我父亲的生活都成了问题。祖母的三哥是个石匠,看到外甥可怜,就把父亲叫到身边,跟他学手艺。一晃,父亲到了结婚的年龄,三舅爷跟我父亲说,“孩子,你别怪舅,咱可拿不出像样的彩礼!”父亲认识我母亲,是因为给她家凿石磨子。 My father was only 3 1 year old to get married, he was 9 years old, my mother. My father is an orphan. Grandmother gave birth to him shortly after he got sick, his grandfather was a great mother, and his father was pulled to the age of 9, but he was out of work on the site, but also let go. In this way, my father’s life has become a problem. Grandmother’s third brother is a mason, see the nephew pitiful, he called his father around, learn skills with him. A flash, his father reached the age of marriage, three uncle said to my father, “children, you do not blame my uncle, we can not get a decent bride price!” "My father met my mother because she gave her home stone .