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有首“忍”字诗说得好,“忍字头上一把刀,临事不忍把祸招,若能忍得心中气,事后方知忍字高。”细品诗味,深受启迪,确能体会忍让的含义。 学会忍让,就能善于控制和调节自己的情绪,约束和支配自己的言行。古往今来,兵家把“怒而兴师”、“愠而致战”列为大忌。苏轼在《留侯论》中认为,“匹夫见辱,拔剑而起,挺身而斗,此不足为勇也”;相反,“卒然临之而不惊,无故加之而不怒”,才是成就事业的英勇本色。在日常生活中,不能因一件小事或一句半句不顺耳的话而争得面红脖粗,大动肝火,伤了和气,甚至带来严重的恶果。
There is the first “tolerance” the word well, “endure a knife on the head, temporary incurable trouble, if you can endure the heart gas, , Can really understand the meaning of tolerance. Learn to be patient, you can be good at controlling and regulating their emotions, constraints and domination of their own words and deeds. Throughout the ages, the soldiers put ”anger and the division“, ”愠 and war“ taboo. Su Shi in the ”stay on the Hou theory,“ that ”Pifu humiliation, pull the sword and come forward, come forward and fight, this is not brave enough“; on the contrary, ”Suddenly without surprise, for no reason but without anger" is Achievement of the heroic nature of the cause. In daily life, you can not win a thick red face because of a trivial matter or a half-hearted sentence, causing anger and aggravation, even bringing serious consequences.