谈论自己,是一门艺术。目的是打动对方。生活中,会说的说得对方心服口服,不会说的说得双方不欢而散,更有因为说话不当招来杀身之祸者。首先,要认清对象。只有认清对象,才能达到目的。认清对象,就要认清对方的身份、年龄、性格等,这样才能有的放矢,真正把话说到对方的心里去。《陈情表》中,李密就清楚地知道这一点。他清楚,自己面对的是一个通过阴谋和屠杀建立起政权的君王,这样的君王,其 It is art to talk about ourselves. The purpose is to impress each other. In my life, I can say that I am convinced that I am convinced that I am convinced that both sides will be upset and disagreeable. First of all, to recognize the object. Only recognize the object, in order to achieve their goals. Recognize the object, we must recognize each other’s identity, age, character, etc., so as to be targeted, the real words to each other’s heart to go. In the “love story”, Li Mi knows this clearly. He knew that he was confronted with a king who established his government through conspiracies and massacres. Such a king