孤、弃儿是一个特殊的群体,他们童年的缺失在心里留下了终身的阴影。“依恋关系”的建立是婴幼儿心理成长期的关键,而孤、弃儿童因为各种原因,无法建立正向积极的依恋关系,使他们有可能成为紧张性依恋和反应性依恋障碍的最高危群体。目前,我们做得比较多的帮助一般都是从物质和文化教育方面对孤儿进行关注和引导,而心理健康方面的工作尚未引起足够的重视,我们缺乏一个系统性和长期性 Solitary and abandoned children is a special group, their childhood absence in the heart left a lifetime shadow. The establishment of “attachment relationship” is the key to the psychological growth of infants and young children. For a variety of reasons, solitary and abandoned children can not establish a positive attachment relationship, which makes them likely to become a stressful attachment and reactive attachment disorder The most dangerous group. At present, most of the help we do is generally focused on orphan children in material and cultural education. However, the mental health work has not given enough attention. We lack a systematic and long-term