“人的本性便是追求目标,而且,因为人生来就是这样。”美国的心理学家马尔兹这句话所言极是。然而,对人生目标高低的合理调控,却是许多人面临的难题。一位父亲带着孩子满街买鞋,走过了数不清的鞋店,竟没有一双孩子满意的鞋。于是请教专家,怎么办?专家答曰:别再带孩子跑鞋店了,带他去看看失去双脚的人吧!那言下之意自然明白:孩子的目标太高了,应该想办法降低他对目标的期望。令人 “Human nature is the pursuit of the goal, and because it is born.” The United States psychologist Marz remarked. However, the reasonable regulation and control of the goal of life is a problem that many people face. A father with children buy shoes across the street, through countless shoe stores, there is not a pair of children satisfied with the shoes. Experts then said: Do not take the children to run the shoe store, took him to see the people who lose their feet! That implies that the natural understanding of the child’s goal is too high, we should think of ways to reduce His expectations of the goal. It is