现在孩子们的教育已不再单单是学校和老师们的事,它需要全社会的大力支持,更需要的是老师和家长们的通力合作。在当今社会,学校的老师们已经不能独立解决许多孩子们面对的、存在的、迫切需要解决的教育问题,现代的学校和老师们需要家长们的积极参与和配合。但是现在的老师和家长双方的关系存在着隔膜、误解、矛盾,有时甚至是敌对。教师们总是抱怨家长们对孩子太过宠爱,不闻不问,或者不讲道理,或者家教方法不对。家长们也不愿意见老师,或 Now that the children’s education is no longer just a matter for schools and teachers, it requires the strong support of the whole society. What is more, the teachers and parents need to work together. In today’s society, school teachers can no longer solve the existing and urgent education problems that many children face. The modern schools and teachers need the active participation and cooperation of parents. But now the relationship between teachers and parents is divided, misunderstood, contradictory and sometimes even hostile. Teachers often complain that parents are overly affectionate, indifferent to their children or not justified or that tutoring methods are wrong. Parents do not want to see the teacher either