有的家长教子心切，一听说孩子学习成绩不好，马上火冒三丈，常以打骂相待，不仅伤害孩子的自尊心，而且使孩子与家长间产生隔阂，结果，既没有激发起孩子的学习积极性，反而造成隐患，给学校教育工作带来困难。某班一位女生期终考试后，突然变得沉默寡言，有时一人没精打彩地坐在教室里流泪，班主任找她谈心，她只是低着头，精神沮丧地一言不发。经了解才知道：她爸爸怪她这次考试成绩不好，狠狠地打了她一顿，还经常挖苦和责骂她，一个和她要好的同学说，她还在笔记本里写了绝命书。 Some parents teach children eager to hear the children learning performance is not good, immediately furious, often scolded, not only hurt the child's self-esteem, but also to create barriers between children and parents, the result, neither to stimulate the enthusiasm of the child's learning , But causes the hidden danger, has brought the difficulty in the school education work. A class of a girl after the final exam, suddenly became dumb, and sometimes a lackluster sitting in tears in the classroom, the class teacher to talk to her, she was just head down, depressed, without saying a word. Know that: her dad blame her poor grades in this exam, fiercely hit her meal, often sarcastic and scolded her, a good classmate and she said she was still in the notebook to write a book of life.