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小时候经常听到妈妈和一群妇女感慨:女孩子是菜籽命,撒到肥田享福一辈子;撒到沙砾上受罪一辈子。我总是不以为然。当时我的年级排名没有下过前3名,正被老师宠得飘飘然,自我感觉好得不得了。不知是不是偶然,“白手起家”的情景在我们家族中的女性身上已上演了5次。我妈妈、两个姑姑和我们姐妹嫁的人都属一穷二白。比如我,我爱人是独生子,他父母四十大几才生他。按理说这样的家庭我俩结婚时该是应有尽有,实际上我们一无所有。那时我们贷款定的房还未交付使用,“洞房”更是破破烂烂,连一条新床单都没有,独子的好处我在婚后也深刻体会到了,穷家出惯子,他被父母惯得四体不勤、五
When I was young, I often heard the feeling of mom and a group of women: the girl is a rapeseed life, sprinkle to enjoy life in the fertile land; sprinkle on the gravel to suffer a lifetime. I always disagree. At that time, my grade ranking did not go under the top three, was being spoiled by the teacher pet, feel very good. I do not know is not accidental, “scratch” situation in our family of women who have staged 5 times. My mom, two aunts and our sister married are both poor and poor. For example, I, my wife is the only child, his parents forty major students gave birth to him. It stands to reason that such a family we should have everything when we get married, in fact, we have nothing. At that time, we set the loan room has not yet been delivered, “bridal chamber ” is even more ragged, even a new bed sheets are not, the benefits of the only child I also deeply understand after marriage, poor family out of habit, he was his parents Four habits are not used, five