孩子放学早接还是晚接,一个看似小小的举动,对孩子性格的影响却有可能是终生的。心理学家曾做过一项研究,结果显示在同一个班里,经常被最早接走的孩子,自信程度和自尊感往往比其他孩子更高;而那些总是被最后接走的孩子,则往往更内向、自我价值感更低。为什么会这样呢?原来,在我们眼里早接晚接的差别也许不大,但在孩子幼小的心灵中代表的却是爸爸妈妈对他 Children pick up early or late, a seemingly small move, the impact on the child’s character may be life-long. Psychologists have done a study, the results showed that in the same class, often the earliest adopters of children, self-confidence and self-esteem tend to be higher than other children; those who are always the last to take away the child, then Often more introverted, lower self-worth. Why did this happen? It turned out that in our eyes, the difference between early access may not be large, but in the young child’s mind is represented by his father and mother to him