我始终认为奖励是教育子女的重要手段之一。当我的儿子还是一个被包在襁褓中的乳儿时,我们就使用过奖励的手段。自然,这种奖励并非是给儿子买多少好吃的东西,买多少好看的衣服,而主要是精神上的奖励。比如,我们每天都要挤出一定的时间同儿子玩耍。当我们走近他时,他那兴奋、愉快的眼神告诉我们,在寂寞中能够见到父母,并同父母玩耍一会儿,精神上得到了极大的满足。由此可见,亲子之间的交往具有精神奖励的作用。这一点也可以用专门实验来证明。 I always think reward is one of the important means of educating children. When my son was still a baby wrapped in a grub, we used rewards. Naturally, this reward is not to buy his son how much good food, how much to buy good-looking clothes, but mainly spiritual reward. For example, we have to squeeze a certain amount of time every day to play with our son. When we approached him, his excited, happy eyes told us that in loneliness we can see our parents and play with their parents for a while, and we are greatly satisfied in spirit. Thus, the interaction between parent-child spiritual reward role. This point can also be used to prove that special experiments.