传统中国文化因深受儒家思想中“礼”的影响,在抒发感情上,包括爱情,均比较含蓄,因此较之现代而言,它忠贞、内敛含蓄、不自由不自主,但又淡泊隽永。受古代社会阶级门第等的限制,所以古代的爱情故事多以悲剧结束;同时古代的婚姻讲究父母之命、媒妁之言,所以中国古代的爱情多与婚姻无关。而在爱情婚姻中,女性更是饱尝了身心的双重痛苦。 Traditional Chinese culture is more implicit in expressing feelings, including love, because it is deeply influenced by the “ceremony” in Confucianism. Therefore, compared with modern times, it is more loyal, restrained and restrained, Meaningful. Because of the restrictions of the ancient social class, the ancient love story ended in tragedy. At the same time, the ancient marriage paid attention to the orders of the parents and the media. Therefore, the love in ancient China had nothing to do with marriage. In love and marriage, women are full of physical and mental pain.