“爱孩子,这是连母鸡都会做的事情。”然而,怎样去爱孩子,什么方式的爱才能使孩子理解、珍惜,却是一门技术性很强的学问。如果只懂得孩子物质上的需要,那是有缺陷的爱。上海浦东三林镇妇联近期以1000名学生为对象搞了一个“母亲素质大调查”活动,其结果令母亲们大吃一惊。结果显示:31.5%的学生认为母亲缺乏魅力、语言粗俗、思想平庸;75.8% “Love children, this is what hen will do.” However, how to love children, what kind of love can make children understand, cherish, but it is a highly technical knowledge. If you only know the child’s physical needs, it is a flawed love. Recently, the women’s federation of Sanlin Town, Pudong, Shanghai, engaged in a “quality survey of mothers” with 1,000 students as its target, which surprises mothers. The results showed that: 31.5% of students believe that the mother lack of charm, vulgar language, thought mediocrity; 75.8%