听一个朋友讲他的一个女性朋友的故事,忽然觉得她的经历是何其荒诞,或者有些悲凉意味。她用她年轻时候自以为是的小聪明,亲手葬送了自己的幸福。而今追悔,已然莫及。听朋友讲,她年轻的时候,曾经有过三次从恋爱到谈婚论嫁的经历。第一次,也是她的初恋,他们是大学同学,男孩清瘦俊朗,朴实乐观。他对她的好可以说是无微不至。比如每次中午她躺在宿舍懒得下楼时,他总是自己简单吃些食堂里最便宜的饭菜,然后买她喜欢吃的清蒸鱼或者水煮肉片放在保温盒里,送到她楼下。再比如每次她要给他买衣服或者鞋子,他总能找出一百个不买的理由。而他为了能有相对宽裕些的钱随时给她买她喜欢的东 Listen to the story of a friend talking about one of his female friends, suddenly feel her experience is absurd, or some desolate means. She used her self-righteous cleverness when she was young to ruin her own happiness. Now regret, it is impossible. Listen to friends, she was young, there have been three times from love to talk of marriage married experience. For the first time, but also her first love, they are college classmates, handsome boy, simple and optimistic. He is good to her in every possible way. For example, every time she lay in the dormitory at noon too lazy to go downstairs, he always simple to eat the cheapest meals in the canteen, and then buy her like to eat steamed fish or shrimp meat on the insulation box, to her downstairs . As another example, every time she wants to buy him clothes or shoes, he can always find a hundred reasons not to buy. And he bought her her favorite East at any time in order to have more generous money