“人的命,天注定。”我现在也有点相信这句被俗人常常挂在嘴边的口头语了。1988年,17岁的我初中毕业。当时,父亲远在千里之外的一座戈壁小城上班,家中只有母亲一个劳动力,还有一个双目失明的奶奶需要照顾,根本无法供我们兄妹四人上学,我只能放弃上高中的权利,回家帮母亲种地。 “Human life, the sky is doomed.” I now have a little bit of the verbal language which the lay people often talk about. In 1988, I graduated from junior high school at the age of 17. At that time, my father was far away from work in a small town beyond a thousand miles away. Her mother was only a laborer in her family, and her grandmother, who was blind, was in need of care. I could not go to school for four of us, and I could only give up my right to return to high school. Home to help mothers planted.