很多人喜欢《幽窗小记》(明·陈眉公著)中记录的明朝人洪应明(语录集《菜根谭》的作者)所写的一幅对联:“宠辱不惊,闲看庭前花开花落;去留无意,漫随天外云卷云舒。”这幅对联的意思是说,为人做事能视宠辱如花开花落般平常,才能不惊;视职位去留如云卷云舒般自然,才能无意。短短二十四个字,却深刻道出了人生对事对物、对名对利应有的态度:不以物喜、不以已悲、宠辱不惊、去留无 A lot of people like a couplet written by Hong Yingming (the author of Quotations “Cai Gen Tan”) recorded in the “You Xiao Gong Ji” (Ming Chen Meigong): “ ; To leave unintentional, diffuse sky clouds cirrus. ”" The meaning of this couplet is that people do things can be regarded as petals flowery as usual, can not be scared; depending on the position to stay like a cloud of natural beauty , Can inadvertently. Just a short 24 words, but profoundly revealed the life of the things on the object, the name of the right should have the attitude: not happy, not sad, pet shame, go without