每个孩子都遵循其个体内在发展动力,自然成长。任何外在的压力与刺激,只会增加孩子的焦虑,欲速则不达。曾读过一句话:“沐浴在同样的日光下,有的草莓先熟,有的后熟,还有些正午时粉红,日落时才变深红……只要不急着摘,每颗草莓都能长到又红又甜。”这段美丽的话语道出了孩子成长中最朴实无华的道理:在教育过程中,家长 Every child follows their own inherent motivation to grow naturally. Any external stress and stimulation will only increase the child’s anxiety and speed up. Had read a sentence: “bathed in the same daylight, and some strawberries cooked, and some ripe, there are some noon when the pink, dark red at sunset ... ... as long as no hurry to pick, each strawberry Can grow to red and sweet. ”" This beautiful discourse out of the child’s growing most simple truth: in the education process, parents