现在的基层思想政治工作经常出现这样一种情况，政工人员与工作对象坐在一起没有什么话可说，双方感到别扭，更谈不上理顺情绪、解决问题了。究其原因大概有几个方面：准备不足──工作前自己的思路没理清，对说什么、怎么说、如何适应对方的性情脾气、出现枝节如何应对等等考? At present, grassroots ideological and political work often shows such a situation. It is hard for both political and personnel members to sit together with their work partners. Both parties feel awkward, let alone tempered their emotions and solve their problems. The reason there are about several aspects: lack of preparation ─ ─ their thinking did not sort out before work, what to say, how to say, how to adapt to each other’s temper, how to deal with the emergence of stub test?