“我看过‘心理医生’栏目里您发表的文章,知道您是一位值得信赖的心理咨询师,就拨通了您的咨询电话。是这样的,我今年29岁,已经毕业工作8年了,恋爱的问题一直不顺。谈过的男友十多个了,都没有谈成。我知道肯定是我自己的问题,可就是不知到底我是怎么回事。”周六晚,一个女孩拨通了我的心理咨询专线,把这样一个困惑摆在了我的面前。事情常常这样,我们的确有时候弄不明白自己。所以,心理咨询的目标首先是帮助当事人看清自己。经过沟通,女孩述说了自己的故事:“我知道自己也不是怎么好,说不上漂亮,但对遇到的男孩都不太满意。有时候觉得是上帝的不公平。其实,上帝也是 “I read your article in the column of” Psychiatrist “and I know that you are a trusted counselor and I dialed your inquiry number. That’s it. I am 29 years old and have graduated for 8 years The problem of love has not been smooth.Her boyfriend talked about more than a dozen, have not negotiated.I know it must be my own problem, but I do not know exactly what is going on. ”Saturday night, a girl dial Through my counseling line, such a confusion placed in front of me. Often times, we do not understand ourselves sometimes. Therefore, the goal of psychological counseling is to help the parties to see themselves. After the communication, the girl described her own story: "I know myself not how good, not beautiful, but not satisfied with the boys encountered. Sometimes it is God’s unfair .In fact, God is