名媛并不仅仅是一个职业阶层“看她穿什么鞋,读什么书,就知道是不是名媛。”章诒和们经历的生活,被人形容为中国最后的名媛生活圈。去医院看朋友,她的惯例是亲自下厨,备齐四样菜品送至病房。在困难时期,康同璧请章诒和吃一顿西餐,也要一丝不苟地讲规矩。名媛是一种生活方式,但并非仅仅指物质生活方式,更不是一种社会形态。正如陈丹青所说:“我们整体上还是一个没有教养的人群,至少在精神上 Ladies and not just a professional class ”to see what kind of shoes she was reading, what book to read, you know is not a ladies. “ Chapter Zhang and their experiences of life, was described as China’s last ladies living circle. Go to the hospital to see a friend, her practice is to cook, ready to send four kinds of dishes to the ward. In difficult times, Kang Tongbi please Zhang 诒 and eat a Western meal, but also to be meticulous in speaking the rules. Ladies is a way of life, but not only refers to the material way of life, but not a social form. As Chen Danqing said: ”We are still an uneducated population as a whole, at least in spirit