思宁老师:我有个哥们儿,很喜欢自己工作。可后来单位不行了,黄不了也活不起,让他很懊丧。他现在干什么都没兴致,经常和一帮酒友喝小酒。我帮他分析过,认为他可能在受一种暗示的折磨:单位不行了,自然缘于领导和同事的无能。但潜意识里,他觉得自己也脱不了干系,认为自己的能力跟他们一样都很洼。暗示带给他的最大影响,是他越来越怀疑和否定自己的能力,让他委靡不振。您说,我这个分析在理吗?——倪康 Suning: I have a buddy, I really like my job. But then the unit die, can not afford to live yellow, let him very depressed. He did not do anything now, often with a bunch of wine friends drink wine. I helped him analyze that he may be subject to an implied torture: the failure of the unit naturally stems from the incompetence of the leadership and colleagues. But subconsciously, he felt himself can not be unrelated, that their ability is as depressed as them. Implied to bring him the greatest impact is that he more and more doubt and denial of their ability to make him depressed. You say, my analysis is reasonable? - Ni Kang