家庭是塑造子女人格的“作坊”,父母是子女终身的教师和榜样,父母的言行影响的不仅仅是孩子的现在,更重要的是影响他的未来乃至终生。作为父母一定要意识到这一点,在家庭中,站得高些,看得远些。现实生活中,有些这样的家长,随着孩子的出生,把全部的精力都投入到孩子身上,自己的事业、自己的生活中的乐趣都牺牲掉了,似乎只为孩子而活着,进取心、事业心丧失殆尽。更有许多做父母的,由于种种原因,觉得有了孩子,自己 Family is a “workshop” that shapes children’s personality. Parents are the lifelong teachers and role models of their children. Parents’ words and actions affect not only the present situation of the children, but more importantly, their future and even their lifetime. As parents must be aware of this, in the family, stand taller, farther. In real life, some of these parents, with the birth of their children, put all their energy into their children, sacrificing their own careers and the pleasure of their own lives. It seems that they are living only for their children and enterprising. Career lost. There are many more parents, for various reasons, that have children, themselves