我一直以为自己是一个慷慨的人,因为我喜欢把东西送给别人。买了新衣服,穿过几次或者根本没穿,不喜欢了,送给表妹;圣诞节、生日聚会收到许多玩具、饰品,挑出自己最喜欢的,剩下的随手送人。很多的亲戚、朋友都接受过我的小礼物,我以为,他们一定喜欢并感谢我。父亲却不这样认为,在他看来,这种做法表面上看是慷慨,其实是吝啬。对此,我不以为然。有一天,父亲带我去拜访他的上司。上司热情中露出几分矜持,父亲和他聊了一会儿就起身告辞。 I always thought I was a generous person, because I like to give something to others. Bought new clothes, worn several times or did not wear, do not like, and gave cousin; Christmas, birthday party received a lot of toys, jewelry, singled out their favorite, leaving the rest readily available. Many relatives and friends have accepted my little gift, and I think they must like and thank me. His father did not think so, in his view, this approach on the surface is generous, in fact, stingy. In this regard, I do not agree. One day, my father took me to visit his boss. Boss enthusiasm show a bit indifferent, his father chatted with him for a while and got up to leave.