培养孩子独立性比成绩更重要“孩子都上初中了,每次吃鸡蛋都是父母帮着剥好放碗里,这么大了连手帕、袜子都不会洗,这种事实在太多了。”说起小孩的独立性,特级教师巴春媚深有感触。她认为,孩子不会自理、该做的事不会做,说到底,还是大人造成的。父母百般呵护,什么都不肯放手,看似对孩子好,其实最终还是害了孩子。巴春媚讲了一个真实的例子:小婷(化名)是独生女,从小就被爸爸妈妈爷爷奶奶宠 It is more important to develop children’s independence than grades. “Children are all in junior high school. Every time they eat eggs, they are helped to peel their bowls. It is too much to be washed with handkerchiefs and socks. . ”Speaking of children’s independence, super teacher Bachun Mei deep feeling. She believes that children will not take care of themselves, do not do this thing, after all, or adult caused. Parents care, everything will not let go, seemingly good for children, in fact, ultimately hurt the children. Baba Mei talked about a real example: Xiaoting (a pseudonym) is the only child, was a father and mother grandparents pet childhood