作为一名中学班主任,课间检查时,我经常看到这样的现象:不少学生的桌面上横七竖八地铺满了各种课本、作业本,文具也是乱七八糟地摆放着;再看看他们的书包,更是一片狼藉,“乱”不忍睹。千万不要小看这种现象,其实,这是孩子做事缺乏条理性的突出表现。做事缺乏条理是孩子成长中的自然现象,父母如果不注意引导,抱着“树大自然直”的想法,往往会让孩子形成不良习惯,从而大大降低生活和学习的效率。这种不良习惯产生的原因是什么呢?首先是家长的包办、代替。现在大多数家庭只有一个孩子,生活中家长经常替孩 As a class teacher at the middle school, I frequently saw this phenomenon during the inter-class inspection: Many students’ desks were filled with textbooks, homework books, and stationery were placed in a mess; look at them again. Schoolbags are even more messy and “chaotic” can’t bear to see. Do not underestimate this phenomenon. In fact, this is an outstanding manifestation of the child’s lack of organization. Unorganized work is a natural phenomenon in the development of a child. If parents do not pay attention to guidance and hold the idea of ​​“straight in the tree,” the children will often develop bad habits, which will greatly reduce the efficiency of life and learning. What is the reason for this bad habit? First of all, it is the parents’ arrangement and replacement. Most families now have only one child. Parents often replace children.