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把担心放一放,让孩子们“打”一会儿,有矛盾有误会,才有更深的沟通。打闹也是一种交流俩宝相处是让父母头疼的事,好像一个不留神,俩就掐上了。有一次开车回家的路上,我们家那俩相差四岁的姐弟,又开始打打闹闹、没完没了、互不相让,姐说姐有理、弟说弟有理。我就说:“好吧,打一个小时!”两个人听完竟然觉得无比好笑,立刻相互倚靠着不打了。然后幽幽地冒出这么一段对话——姐姐:“咱俩不可以打架了。”弟弟:“嗯,要不妈妈会让咱俩打一个小时呢!”姐姐:“一个小时?太可怕了!”
Put the worry aside, let the children “fight ” for a while, there are contradictions and misunderstandings, have more communication. Slapstick is also a exchange between two treasure is a headache for parents, as if an inattentive, they pinch on. Once on my way home, the four-year-old siblings of our family both started to fool around endlessly, letting each other make their own way. I said: “Well, playing an hour!” Two people actually even feel very funny after hearing, immediately rely on each other do not hit. Then faint out of such a dialogue - sister: “We can not fight. ” Brother: “ah, or my mother will make us an hour to play it! ” Sister: “an hour? terrible!”