梅子姐姐:你好!我是一个非常内向的人,基本不会主动和人说话,所以在学校中人缘不是很好,身边的朋友不是很多。看见同学们围在一起有说有笑,我也想加入,但却不知道说什么,也不敢走近。我该怎么改变自己,交到朋友?白叶白叶同学:你好!我们社会有一个奇怪的论点,就是不少人把“朋友多”作为评论一个人人品的一个标准。如果某人朋友不多,那就是人品有问题。有的人会受此观念影响,看到别人呼朋唤友的,自己会产生压力,产生焦虑。这样说吧,人品不好的人,肯定不会有很多朋友。但人品好的人,也未必有很 Plum sister: Hello! I am a very introverted person, the basic will not take the initiative to speak with others, so popularity in school is not very good, not many friends around. I saw my classmates surrounded and talked and laughed, and I also wanted to join, but I did not know what to say and did not dare to approach. How do I change myself and make friends? Baiye Baiye Classmate: Hello! There is a weird argument in our society that many people use “friends and more ” as a criterion for commenting on a person’s character. If not many friends, that is the character of a problem. Some people will be influenced by this concept. When they see others calling friends, they will have their own pressure and anxiety. To put it this way, bad people, certainly not a lot of friends. But good character, may not be very good